Euthanasia


The word euthanasia means "easy death" in Greek, but whether and when to euthanize a pet can be a very difficult decision.   Making it even more difficult, pet owners are often asked to decide on euthanasia while experiencing extremely strong emotions.   Some pet owners feel guilty just considering euthanasia, even when it is recommended by their veterinarian, or the alternatives are medical procedures that are not affordable to the owner. 

It is very important that you respect your feelings during this difficult time.   The more carefully you think it through before deciding, the easier it will be to process your feelings afterwards.  Many pet owners say that this decision felt as hard as whether to let go of an ill family member.   It can be hard not to agonize over whether it is too soon, even though veterinarians report that pet owners more often later feel that they waited too long.  

Suggestions regarding euthanasia:
  • Listen carefully to the advice of your veterinarian regarding the expected quality of life of your pet.  Make sure to ask your veterinarian about any questions or concerns you may have.  Some pet owners don't ask because they feel embarrassed, and this can make mourning more difficult.
  • Remind yourself that there is no exact "right time", and that you are making this decision out of love for your pet.
  • If you feel confused, fatigued or overwhelmed, take a day (if you can) to let it "sit" in your mind, so you don't worry later that you made a rash decision. 
  • If you can, talk about it with family or friends who will understand how difficult the decision is and respect your feelings.  
  • Some pet owners use prayer or talk to religious leaders to help with their decision.
  • Consider talking to a professional therapist / counselor, or attending a Pet Loss Support Group.  Click here for a list of Pet Loss resources.
Other common issues about euthanasia include:
  • Consider whether you want to be with your pet for the euthanasia and ask your veterinarian if this is possible.   This is a highly personal decision, but many pet owners say they were glad that they chose to do so.    You may also want to bring a friend or family member.
  • Pets will sometimes gain energy or "rally" right before euthanasia, even if they have been terminally ill for a long while.  This can cause doubt or guilt in their owners.
  • Consider how you would like to spend your final hours and minutes with your pet, and be prepared for that time.
  • Starting to think about burial, ceremony or ritual can help begin the mourning process and ensure that you don't miss anything you may regret later.

Click here for a list of Pet Loss resources.

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